- He tells you he isn’t really ready for a relationship early on. Yet he continues to talk to you and lead you on in a way that seems serious. You just go with it because he is cute, seems genuine, gives you attention, and you might just think he’ll change and realize you’re “the one.”
- He puts his phone on airplane mode. That way you can’t see incoming texts when you ask to see pictures on his phone that you guys just took of each other.
- He takes his phone with him every time he goes to the bathroom.
- He has more friends that are girls than you do, and he only has a few guy friends. 5. You haven’t met a lot of his friends even though you hang out with him a lot. They’re always busy.
6. His phone battery seems to die more than the average person’s, making him unreachable for extended periods of time.
7. He is a shitty communicator
and takes forever to text you back. Duh, because he’s texting countless
other girls, so it takes a while for him to get back to you.
8. He occasionally agrees to
plans, then backs out later — like telling you he can come to your
cousin’s wedding and then acting weird when you actually try to book a
rental car.
9. When you pick up his phone to
do something innocuous like check the time he FREAKS OUT and/or snatches
it away from you with some lame excuse like “my mom’s texts are
embarrassing” or “phones are really personal.”
10. If you calmly and sincerely
approach your partner about the thought that something seems off or
makes you uncomfortable, and he or she lashes out and make you feel
insecure or insane, it’s because s/he is deflecting. A caring
relationship involves talking things out and caring about one another’s
feelings and validating them, while trying to resolve an issue in a
constructive and healthy way.
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