8 SECRETS TO ENSURE A STEADY LOVE LIFE

Love is patient, caring, and kind.

Genuine love makes great relationship.

Most people say love stays longer and stronger when both bodies are matured but I disagree to that. Although I could say to some extent its true but what makes love wax stronger is pure hearts.

Maturity doesn’t have anything to do with age  this days anyway, hence love doesn’t have anything to do with maturity. No matter how young or old you are, you can pull through.

We really do not know that, to a very large extent love has rules guiding it and its because of the ignorance to this fact tat many of us do make mistakes and fall into heartbreaks.

Here are 7 secrets that ensure you a lasting love life:

1.       LOVE :  Don’t be surprised that love is the number one rule of love. If you want to be loved you have to love first to be loved in return. Love people around you, love even the ones that are not close to you. Love is paramount in every humans life,it can not be taken away, its like a roller coaster. Love really make the world go round.

2.       PRIDE : Pride they say goes before downfall. Love and pride are two opposite things that can never agree. If in a relationship couples  feel too big to apologize at all times to each other then love can never find a resting place in such a relationship.

3.       FRIENDSHIP: This is so much required in a relationship or in the issue of love. You have to be friends with each other, play with each and do not feel too big to relate with each other. No mater how childish you feel a play can be never mind just  be friendly with each other.

4.       ABUSIVE WORDS: Don’t ever use abusive words at each other no matter how angry you are,it could end up affecting so much that you have already planned for. Rather,  you can give yourself some pretty names and with that what ever issue you both have will resolve.

5.       BE ROMANTIC: How does that sound. Be romantic to each other. Take each other out on trips or anywhere to catch fun. Buy gifts for each other. Ladies don’t let your man always do the buying of gifts, try so much and do the same thing too, with that you are appreciating each other and this helps so much.

6.       RESPECT: Respect each other. Men, its not only left for your woman to respect,respect her as well.  Respect they say is reciprocal .  That means it’s a give and take.

7.       DON'T BE SECRETIVE: Don’t ever keep secret in your relationship.rather be opened at all times,share each others views, share your love and pain together.

 

8.     DON'T NAG: No matter what even as you respect each other you must always try not to nag each other. Its a normal thing to ask questions, say things but don't nag , don't repeat the same thing over and over again even though you feel your opinion is not being handled as you want. Always find a way to understand each other and settle tings rather than nag each other. This seriously leads to you abusing each other, eventually not respecting each other and at the end of the day breaking up. Always manage your anger and deal with things the way you know it can help both of you.

I will like to end these with a story. This is a story that happened between  Sarah 24 and Jimmy 27. They both met at the university and started going out.  Initially the love was strong because they were not worried about their differences. It went on like that for about 6 months when Jimmy realized he was the one always coming to visit Sarah, buying her gifts, takes her out and above all she yells at him at every  little mistake he does. Not until then did he realize he has just been looking out for her and her not reciprocating. Despite that fact Jimmy still took his time to talk things out with Sarah, but Sarah wasn’t yielding because she has PRIDE, she is  DISRESPECTFUL, UNFRIENDLY, UNROMANTIC, and all those I mentioned earlier. Jimmy then made a decision to stop showing love to her and decided to do the other way round. The moment he started he was just going on and on with it and Sarah later had to beg but it was rather too late. They ended up 

Follow these principles and see how sweet love will become to your world. You'll live together in love, breath together in love, walk together in love and GROW together in love.